Dear blogosphere,
I want to correct a misconception… There is not one person, not one soul, that I am currently NOT talking to. There seems to be some confusion out there about who is not talking to whom.
I’m also not hung up over anything. I’m not pissed at anyone for anything that has happened more than 48 hours ago. That’s not to say that I’ve forgotten things before then, but I’m not actively avoiding anyone, and I generally don’t stay pissed off at people.
As for avoiding people, I couldn’t do anymore the opposite without going and camping out on people’s doorsteps. I have email, I have instant messenger at home and work, I have a phone! I have responded to every. single. communication. that has been directed towards me. It amounts to a grand total of one.
Without going into details, let me state this for everyone… If anyone tells me that they’re not sure if they can hang out with me anymore, and they think that our friendship is beyond repair, then the ball is in THEIR court. Please, anyone, disagree with me here if I’m wrong… but in that situation, anything I do only stands to make matters worse… so, waiting is the only option. That’s what I’m doing.
Back to work after baby– how do you know when you’re ready?