ya know what pisses me off? ok ok… that’s too long of a list… ya know what’s pissing me off right now?

ok, so this guy commits suicide. His wife left him and took the kids (insert the rest of long, sad, pitiful story here). So a random person, let’s call them J… (J random person?) J comes to me and says, oh, this poor guy… he committed suicide because his mean ol’ vicious wife left him for a sports jock and took this kids, mean ol’ witch. To which I reply, no, he killed himself because he was unstable or unbalanced. And J continues to bash the wife… if she hadn’t left him none of this ever would have happened… to which I keep insisting that the wife did not kill him. so J gets all pissed at me telling me that if this woman would have just held her marriage together there would never be any problem and life would have been perfect for them. so I asked J, what if this woman had stayed with this guy, totally given up her own well-being and stayed there because of him. What if she would have gotten depressed later being overwhelmed with all her regrets in life and then killed herself 10 years later when her kids were 12, 14 and needed their mother? J’s reply? oh, that would never happen. people don’t get depressed about what they missed out in life.

closemindedness… that’s what is pissing me off right now. Sure, you want me to go be part of your little circle of people hissing and booing this woman, but I say, NO! it’s not HER fault that HE killed HIMSELF.

our actions have consequences, but at what point do they cease to be our consequences and become other people’s actions?

p.s. to J, since I know you read this blog… If this guy was your significant other’s best buddy and all, then why the h*ll did you abandon him for the worst 2 1/2 months of his life? ya know, in my book, friends that choose to go away when the going gets tough and come back when everything’s all better aren’t really friends at all.

Can I get an Amen!